When you achieve a certain level of success as an entrepreneur, one of the things you’ll receive are invitations to speak to a group and share your entrepreneurial journey with them. While there are some that feel right at home on stage and under the spotlight, there are those that find it daunting to face and talk to an audience, especially a large one.
Stage fright or the fear of public speaking can often hinder one to share valuable insights. If your fear is to mess it up and not deliver your message right, then there are a few things you can do to develop yourself to become a good public speaker.
Preparing for a speaking engagement
Preparation is key to hone your craft in public speaking. And you have to prepare yourself mentally, physically and emotionally even when you don’t have any scheduled engagement in place. You have to keep a mindset of being always prepared in case something comes up and you need to take the podium and the microphone. Here are things you can do before or when you are preparing yourself for a public speech.
Watch videos of speakers. During your spare time, learn how the experts do it by watching videos of them like the ones in TED Talks and similar materials, many of which you can access online. Note what makes them effective speakers and observe the various methods they employ to capture their audience.
Don’t memorise, but outline your thoughts. When you plan what to present and how you will go over your topic, organise your ideas through an outline. It’s more advisable NOT to memorise your entire speech as you might make a mistake along the way and affect your entire presentation. Rather, keep in mind the flow of ideas by familiarizing yourself with the outline. Of course, this goes without saying that you should know the type of audience you have beforehand so that you can adjust your presentation and tailor-fit it to them. Prepare your notes in bullet points using keywords or keyphrases so it’s easier to remember.
Inject anecdotes and personal stories. The audience loves it when you share a part of yourself. While you may present facts and figures during your presentation, it makes your speech more engaging through personal experiences. It strengthens your connection with the audience, especially if they can relate to your story. It adds a human element to your speech. You can also include powerful quotes from famous people, but don’t overdo it.
Practice in front of a mirror. If you really want to hone your speaking skills, you have to practice a lot even when you don’t have a speaking engagement coming up. Practice in front of your family or friends and do it also in front of the mirror. You will find excess gestures or habits or facial expressions that you need to control when you speak in front of a crowd.
Record your speeches and practice sessions. When you speak before a group, record your presentation and watch closely the things you need to limit and avoid next time. Probably, you stammer or you talk too fast. Maybe your face stays stoic the whole time or you talk on a monotone. Make a mental note of what you can stop, continue and improve doing when you deliver a message to an audience.
During the speech
The crucial moment is when you’re on stage and holding the microphone. If you’re not careful and you allow your nerves to get the better of you, you might experience a mental block or freeze on the spot. First, remember to breathe. Focus on your breathing until your nervousness goes away and you become calm. Then go ahead and start your talk.
Pause and talk slowly. Don’t rush. While you are mindful of the time element, deliver your speech rightfully. You can change your pace throughout your talk, pause for effect, enunciate words that you want to stress and repeat certain phrases that need to be highlighted.
Control your tones and gestures. Watch out for your hands. You might be overdoing some hand movements. Control them by putting your hands together in front of you in a relaxed manner and use them only when necessary. An enthusiastic tone can help gain the attention of your audience. You can lower your voice at certain portions and raise them up at important parts. The key is to have variations throughout your speech so as not to lose your audience.
Maintain eye contact and interact. Scan the crowd and look at people in the eyes when you talk. Public speaking is also a form of conversation, it’s just that you are talking to several receivers of your message. Make your presentation interactive by asking questions, engaging your audience or even making them repeat some phrases for emphasis. The eyes are the windows to the soul and looking directly to your audience allows you to show your sincerity, be sensitive to their feelings, and build confidence.
Maximize your space. You may have a large stage for your talk, a small platform or you may be seated on a couch. Get familiar with your space before your talk so that during the presentation proper, you can use it to your advantage. If it’s too large, walk around to involve all your audience in the conversation. However, if it’s just a platform, it’s an opportunity for you to be intimate with your listeners because you can walk nearer to them.
Leave a good closing statement. Make your ending memorable. Just like any good movie, doing a presentation also leads you to a climax and denouement. The finale must be impactful and powerful enough to cap your talk. That way, the audience will remember more about your speech and the pertinent points you raised.
So, get your notebook ready and start taking down notes. Go in front of the mirror and practice speaking. Hone your public speaking skills because it’s a tool you can use in inspiring and motivating others, sharing your story, building yourself and promoting your business. Once you have the confidence to hit the stage and the podium, you can now start accepting invitations for speaking engagements.
As American clergyman Alexander Gregg once said, “There are three things to aim at in public speaking: first, to get into your subject; then to get your subject into yourself; and lastly, to get your subject into the heart of your audience.”